People's stories should not be forgotten

The stories people tell are real history, they shouldn't be forgotten. But people forget and move on. Or die and are forgotten.

My late wife Kirsten used to tell many stories, tell them almost non-stop. I heard some of them many times, until I grew tired of them. Now that she is gone I would do almost anything to hear her tell those stories again. You'd think that after hearing them so many times, that I would remember them almost verbatim. But I don't. Some I've forgotten completely, and some are very hazy. Those stories are gone forever, and that should not be. It saddens me.

I'll tell some of Kirsten's stories in this blog, those I can remember, and in that way preserve at least some of them.

Mostly I'll put my own stories here. Some will be long and meandering. Some will be short and pointless, just a couple sentences. Maybe my remaining friends will chuckle at some of them. But mainly I'm putting them down in the hope that they will live on, somehow, and not be forgotten.

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